Wanna date?
Top 5 Mistakes by Guys:
1) Ping her frequently
Dont call/email/sms too much. Give them some time. Let them comeback. After all there is truth in the oft repeated quote - "If you love somebody, set them free. If they dont comeback, it wasnt yours in the first place. But if they do comeback, they will be with you forever".
2) Pamper her with care
Yeah I know the suggestions doesnt seem to be intuitive. Surprisingly they tend to choke under too much love and care. Even if you truly care for her, dont express it too much. Now and then reassure her.
3) Take her out often.
Never ever gift ur fiance unless its her birthday or valentine's day. Reserve it for special occasions.
4) Dont smoke/drink/freak out.
You are considered as cool only if you smoke and drink a bit. (Hey I m not advising you to do so. Bcoz neither do I. But that is a frank comment)
5) Xcuse yourself when she is down
I am truly surprised to see so many guys who walk away from her at the time of need. There is something called priorities. You dont have to be with her to share the happy moments. But when she is down, you should be the first person to listen and comfort her.
Top 5 Mistakes by Girls:
1) Take him for granted
Guys usually have more patience than opposite sex but still dont push them beyond a limit.
2) Lean on him too much
Neither should you swing to the opposite end of the spectrum.
3) Smoke/Drink/Party around.
Your guy might think it is cool, to take you out on date. But dont expect him to settle down with you.
4) Change urself for ur fiancee.
You should be flexible and accomodating. But you need to be yourself. You shouldnt live a life for somebody else. Instead you should share and live your life with somebody else.
5) Not in touch with future in-laws.
When you marry somebody, you are not only marrying the guy but also the entire family. So take your time to figure out as to whether you are mutually compatible with their family members.
Top 5 Mistakes by Me:
1) Posting this blog
2) Posting this blog
3) Posting this blog
4) Posting this blog
5) Posting this blog
Yeah I know this is controversial, but feel free to air your views.
Disclaimer: All opinions are mine. They do not reflect the views of my gurus. Both of my gurus are out of station. Onsite Guru is on leave and the offshore Guru (v call him as Infyguruji) is meditating in Pune after celebrating his birthday on 19 Feb.
- Dheepak Ra
posted by Baejaar at 2:37 AM
3 Comments:
Just to add one more to ur list
Top 6th mistake by guys
Think ever that a girl looks for character, the ability to care for her etc, she has forever looked for one thing which is his financial position for her never ending expenses !
Top 6th mistake by girls
Think that guys expect them to be intelligent and rational to understand them. Infact, its just the opposite, they prefer the dumber but beautiful ones most of the time.
Priya, thanks for the comment.
I accept the 6th mistake by guys. Most of them might look for financial position before marriage. It seems sensible. But guys need to search for the minority who doesnt care about how much you earn and looks for your character.
As far as the 6th mistake by gals, I am not too sure. Purely for dating its true that guys might prefer dumber & beautiful ones. But if neone is serious, they will look forward to a girl who can understand him. However I disagree that a girl needs to be very intelligent to understand each other. As long the girl is able to understand you and accept you for the way you are, it doesnt matter what her IQ is or how beautiful she looks.
Actually it was posted in white font against a white background that "#alias fiance = girl friend". Neway from next time, I will try not to use too many aliases.
Its interesting that you have referred to "girl", considering the fact that I take lunch with you and Neel, occasionally joined by Keyur. If that girl is one of those who happen to be in the food courts, then the statement should read as the "girl with whom v hav been having lunch" ;-)
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